Starting sometime on Saturday night, I stopped feeling her move. I can usually count on her having a dance party right before bed and also first thing in the morning. I'm also used to waking up periodically throughout the night and feeling her move. Saturday night and Sunday morning, none of that happened. I told myself I'd eat breakfast, and have a half caff coffee and that would surely get her to be active.
It didn't.
Finally after trying all of the usual tricks (drinking cold water, laying on my side, etc) I started to panic since I hadn't felt any significant movement in 10 hours. I called the OB nurse and they sent me to labor and delivery to get checked out.
Every possible scenario was going through my mind from a cord accident to the idea that she might actually have to come out at 30 weeks because she was in distress.
I dreaded waking Kevin up to tell him "We need to go to the hospital because I'm not feeling the baby move." I was seriously choking on those words as they came out, as I'm sure they were horrific to hear first thing in the morning for him.
We jumped into the car, headed to the hospital, and they put me in their pre-op room because their triage room was full of expecting moms for other issues. I was hooked up to a monitor where they immediately picked up plenty of movement and a strong, normal heartbeat.
I think the straps around my belly bothered Sammy because I finally felt some strong movement and kicks myself. Finally, Sammy! I was extremely relieved. While being monitored they noticed I was having some uterine irritability and some braxton hicks, which was interesting to me seeing how I've had some mild cramping on and off the past few days. I assumed it was braxton hicks, but seeing how I have nothing to compare it to, I couldn't be sure. Now I know and that's good knowledge to have.
The pre-op bed I called home for my visit |
A few hours later, an ultrasound tech came in and did a complete anatomy scan and biophysical profile. Sammy passed 100% and demonstrated all of the necessary characteristics she needed to which indicated she is not in distress. It was amazing seeing all of her sweet little body parts again on the screen - her little feet, her tiny fingers, her sweet little nose and lip. She even gave us a "thumbs up" sign during part of it. It was her way of saying "I'm okay, mom and dad! I was just playing possum! Sorry to scare you!" They estimated her weight to be around 3lb 14 oz. Kevin was just 5 lb and some change when he was born so it just blows my mind how big this little girl already is!
I also had my first internal cervical check and everything looked perfect there too. I measured in at 3.79 and no signs of opening any time soon.
Did I mention I'm relieved? Oh, I am.
I didn't think we'd get pictures from a hospital visit, but we did. Here you go!
Top left is Sammy's lips and nose and top right and Sammy's profile showing her chubby cheeks. Bottom left Sammy's profile and bottom right is the bottom of her little foot. |
Other than the uncomfortable pre-op bed I sat on for 5.5 hours yesterday (which I think is a form of torture from the middle ages) screwing up my hip, we are no worse for the wear and so glad we went in. Because I can barely even type this but...if something were to happen to Sammy because I made the choice to ignore decreased fetal movement, I don't think I could deal with it. I'm glad we went in and I'm even more glad she's okay!
During our long wait in the room we heard the squeal of a tiny baby. I'm not sure if he/she had just been born or if he/she was just hanging out with mama, but it was such a sweet sound that I look forward to hearing from Sammy in July.
She's been dancing up a storm ever since. In fact, she's having a little personal dance party as I type this. It's the best feeling in the whole world!
So glad that Sammy is doing great. What a relief! I did the exact same thing with my daughter when I thought she was not moving, and she was fine. I would rather be the crazy worried mom but know my baby is safe. July will be here before you know it.
ReplyDeleteYup, you're totally right and I agree. I'd rather be "crazy" a million times over than ignore it and learn that it was too late. I can't even fathom....it's not an option. So crazy I'll be. :) Can't wait for July!
DeleteI am happy to hear that all is well! I imagine that was scary, indeed, and I don't blame you one bit for going in. Always better to be safe than sorry. Excited for July to get here!
ReplyDeleteYup, you're right! Definitely better to be safe than sorry. July is around the corner. Sheesh, can't believe it!
DeleteSo glad everything is good! Praise God :)
ReplyDeleteIndeed! :)
DeleteWhew! I went through something like that as well. I really couldn't feel baby b for a few days so they got me in ASAP for an u/s to find out he was transverse and so both babies were moving on the same side. It is so scary.. I'm glad that all is well and she will be here before you know it!
ReplyDeleteOh yikes, that's so scary! I'm glad it turned out to be okay for you too.
DeleteVery scarry. Glad Sammy is going great! I went in on this same issue at about 28 weeks and it's when we discovered my low fluid - never ignore your gut.
ReplyDeleteYou're totally right. And I am glad your little guy was okay in the end. Glad you trusted YOUR gut and you have him here now. :)
DeletePhew! Glad everything's ok.
ReplyDeletePhew! :) Me too.
DeleteSO so glad Sammy is ok! I can't imagine how scared you were!! I do love her chubby little cheeks!!
ReplyDeleteMe too! I know, aren't they somethin'? I can't wait to kiss them! Thank you!
DeleteI'm so glad Sammy is ok! Our little man has given me a few scares like that, but thankfully I haven't had to run to the hospital yet. I can't get over those cheeks!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad your little guy is still going okay for you! Me neither with the cheeks!
DeleteSo glad all is well! That's scary!!
ReplyDeleteMe too, thanks! It was...whew!
DeleteI'm so glad you listened to you baby and your body. When i hit 40w1d my DD stopped moving and though i felt silly, we headed into l/d and sure enough she was in distress (She swallowed merconium, but they didn't know what was happening) and was born 90 min later. Once born, it was a quick fix and she's a healthy little girl.
ReplyDeleteHoly crap, that is terrifying. I'm glad all turned out okay. It's incredible how things can change so quickly. You never know when the suspicion might end up turning out to save the LOs life. Good job, mama, for being so in tune!
DeleteSo glad she is doing well! I remember feeling that way with my Caleb...it's normal! Much love to you and Sammy!
ReplyDeleteAww, thank you!
DeleteI'm glad all is well. I always felt dumb making the call, feeling like I was that patient, but every time I was relieved and knew I made the right decision. Especially since one of those calls sent me to L&D and earned me a stay in the hospital until delivery. You can never be too careful! I can't believe you're so close! --Tanya
ReplyDeleteYou never know, right? Always better to be careful! Thanks for commenting!
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